Yeah, "mutual", in quotation marks...
The reason why I put the word in quotation marks is because a lot of people say they will keep it mutual, but they never really do so. This usually happens when you’re a couple and have had a relationship together, and you both have the same exact friends. However, down the line…you guys might break up. Now, what happens? Are all those friends still going to legitimately be cool with you?
“Damn. She’s going? Ugh. I don’t think I’m going to go.”
“If he goes, I’m not going. Don’t count me in on that one…”
Awkwardness: It’s not just uncomfortable for you both; it definitely is for your friends, too. Trying to proceed and keep it mutual between friends can be inflexible, and makes people put in the middle, and they also feel like their choosing sides. Especially if you have one person that always wants people to take their side, and puts all their business out there. But, if you genuinely keep it mutual between a couple that are going through a break up, then you’re being a true friend to that other person.
"I always try to keep it mutual. Don't ever try to make me chose sides. We ain't in Elementary school, fool." - Me (yooitzkc)